5 THINGS GETTING IN THE WAY OF YOUR FINANCIAL ABUNDANCE

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If I told you that financial abundance is your birthright, but you are getting in your own way of it, would you believe me? Do you truly think that anyone is better than you and deserves financial wealth more than you? Why would one person have the luxury of all their heart’s desires, while another struggles each month to pay their bills and put a roof over their head? It’s not fair, right? Is it because one person works harder than the other? Or they just got luckier? Or could it possibly be that your thoughts and beliefs are creating your world unconsciously and you have no clue just how powerful you truly are as a creator of your physical reality? I’m here to tell you it’s the latter. Stay with me here and listen to what I have to say.
 
We are all born equal. We are all magnificent human beings with the capability to create every single one of our heart’s desires. The reason you have a desire is to let you know that it’s something you want and it was meant to be yours. Even when you have what you don’t want, it is a blessing of contrast to show what it is that you do want. If one of your desires is to be wealthy in the form of money, well then you can be damn sure that it is possible no matter where your starting point is right now, but first you have to begin to examine your thoughts.

 

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RELEASING THE NEED TO BE PERFECT: 5 TECHNIQUES

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For most of my life, I struggled with the idea of perfectionism. From my looks, to my body, my GPA, and my business, nothing was ever good enough. It came from a place of me never feeling good enough. I strived for perfection so much so that I would end up sabotaging myself inadvertently. I used perfection as my clutch, my safety net. If I wasn’t perfect at something automatically, I just wouldn’t do it. If I couldn’t make a perfect decision, I just wouldn’t make one.

I put off so many things in my life out of fear of not making the right decision. Even when it came to my divorce I procrastinated and made sure I tried every last thing even when I knew it was dead for years, just so that I could make the perfect decision. Then, when I finally filed for a divorce, I even made sure we used a mediator and were friendly to each other to make it the most loving and agreeable divorce in history. When I was younger, I had friends tell me that they didn’t want to do bad things in front of me because they didn’t want to let me down because I was such a good girl.

 

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A 5-STEP NIGHTTIME RITUAL TO RENEW YOUR ENERGY

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Out with the old, in with the renew! Spring has sprung which means it’s time for new growth and renewing our energy in order to bloom into what we’ve prepared for all winter. Many may have noticed these past few weeks may have brought up some intense emotions. When this happens, we know that we are in the process of leveling up and shifting our energy to prepare for our desires becoming reality.

Our bodies and souls are in sync with the seasons and are blooming right along with the trees and flowers. Think about how much energy a transformation must require. I always think of a cocoon turning into a beautiful butterfly. We must renew our energy each night in order to neutralize it back to a harmonious state that will serve us. We absorb people’s energy each day; with each interaction energy is being exchanged, good or bad. Everything and everyone has their own energy vibration. High vibrational energy is positive while low vibrational energy is negative. Make it your goal to raise your vibration each day in order to grow, transform, heal and create your wildest desires.

 

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WHAT SELF-LOVE LOOKS AND FEELS LIKE (AND HOW TO START PRACTICING IT TODAY)

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Self-love. This is the whole basis of my profession. I help women all over the world return to their natural state of love. Back to their authentic state before all the pain, holes, and gaps were created in their identity. When we were born, it was our most natural state of pure love. Then, life happens!

Some of us were born into an environment in which we were not wanted, were a mistake, or just plain ole’ got in the way. This all resulted in a distortion in the way we view love, especially for ourselves. Even if we were born in an environment in which we were planned and wanted, we still received messages about ourselves through our parents, school, friends, etc. We internalized our parent’s anger, frustration, and bad days. We created stories about ourselves and how unlovable we are. Or how we get in the way.

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WHY MY KIDS STILL LIKE ME AFTER I DIVORCED THEIR DAD

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As I sit here peacefully listening to the birds chirping, my kids are with their dad for the weekend, and I can’t help but reflect on the last 4 years plus. It just so happened that a Facebook memory popped up of me and my daughter 6 years ago. I sent it to her right away as it was a “bring your child to work day” pic of me and her in my classroom when I was a 6th grade teacher. After her first initial response of, “Aww, we were so cute”, she said something that truly hit me. She said, “That’s not your genuine smile. It doesn’t even look like you”. And it didn’t.

That picture was taken at a time in my life when I was struggling to be happy but just didn’t know how, or the first thing about true happiness. I cared way more back then about what I looked like on the outside. I never felt enough, no matter how pretty or fit I was. Or how big my house was. Or which car I drove. It was a time when my spirit was heavy and the darkness penetrated right through that picture.

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6 WAYS TO RAISE YOUR VIBE STARTING TODAY

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Good Vibes Only. We see this saying all over social media, clothing, and knick-knacks but what exactly is a vibe and why is it so important that it’s good? We all have a variety of emotions that come and go and vary upon the different experiences that come our way. We have beliefs about ourselves and certain experiences trigger certain emotions based upon those beliefs. Some emotions serve us better than others.

When we are functioning from a place of love, then we are manifesting all of our heart’s desires. If we are making decisions and reacting from a place of fear, then we are blocking all the greatness that is trying to reach us. When we believe we are blessed and feel grateful, then the emotion of gratitude will create more things in our lives to be grateful for. The same goes if we play the victim role and hold onto resentment and anger, then this will negatively serve us and bring more experiences into our lives to feel like a victim and carry anger.

 

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EPISODE 12: IT’S OKAY TO WANT A DIVORCE WITH NICOLE AMATURO

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“You owe yourself the love you so freely give to other people”. This reminder is one of our favorites to share on Instagram, and it always makes us feel amazing when you show us how much you love it too. You’ve also let us know that you want to hear stories from women who were the ones to make the decision to end their marriage. That’s why we’re doing this episode about how it’s okay to want a divorce.

Nicole Amaturo is here to talk about how this was a part of her own life, and to share how she became a Personal Growth and Love coach to help other women realize this as well. This episode is really about being able to love yourself, to forgive yourself for wanting your best life possible, and celebrating how liberating self-love can be.

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CUTTING CORDS WITH AN OLD LOVE

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Are you trying hard to move on but just can’t seem to stop obsessing over an ex? Do you still feel like he has an energetic hold on you? In relationships, we form energetic cords, or cords of attachment, attaching our human energy field to our partners’. Often, we try to move on but we’re still connected. This allows us to feel stuck, drained, and frustrated. It is essential that we cut these cords that bind us.

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5 WAYS TO ACKNOWLEDGE AND COPE WITH HORMONAL CHANGES NATURALLY

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We all know them. They can be compared to the month of March. They come in like a lion and out like a lamb. They’re the hormonal changes that occur for many of us whether due to menstruation, postpartum, or menopause. We’ve all experienced the uncontrollable sobbing, anxiety, sadness, mood swings, bloating, breast tenderness. cramping, break-outs, irritability, and panic attacks that result from these changes.

When I was about 7 months pregnant with my first child, I started to get panic attacks out of nowhere. Doctors blamed it on my hormones and pregnancy and I bought it. But, if I knew then what I know now, I would’ve seen what was going on a bit more clearly. My whole life was turned upside down at the age of 19 when I became pregnant for the first time, got married to my ex-husband of 16 years that I knew for about 3 months, and started to become a real adult, all after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend of 2 ½ years 6 months prior to getting married. Yep read that one again to fully comprehend the whirlwind I was in!

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3 ACTIONS TO ALLOW YOUR SELF TO FEEL WORTHY AND EXCEPTIONAL

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Not feeling worthy comes from a place of not feeling like we are good enough. The first step is to first realize this is one of our false beliefs about ourselves and then just acknowledge it. Just in our awareness of it, we immediately begin the healing process to change. How do we know we may feel unworthy? Well, what are you attracting in your life? Are you attracting all the wrong partners in love and dating? Are you attracting the guys that call you “babe” within the first few text exchanges? When my close friend and I were newly single after our divorce, we used to think it was so cute when guys called us “babe” because it must’ve meant they really adored us! Uh…no! It means that everyone is their “babe” and by them not using our names, they actually weren’t acknowledging our identity, our worth. I now realize it would’ve been just the same as giving us a number!

 

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